Dare To Be Yourself Every Day Of Your Life

Do you dare to be yourself? Many of us  live our day to day thinking more about what they will say, than about us. We live in a constant fear of being ourselves , which leads us to try to be what the people we respect, love and “believe” they expect us to be want. In short, we almost always end up taking the actions that others would like, seeking to achieve what they themselves yearn for but not what we feel.

Many times I have asked myself the ” why” of this energy that leads us to live our fantastic lives like this. And I came to the conclusion that when you love or love someone, you are moved by the continuous desire not to fail them and to seek acceptance with pride on their part, of our person.

But I would like to reach an agreement between the two of us to continue this story. For this, I would love for you to ask yourself the following question:  “ What is an opinion for you? ”  . Surely, our responses are similar.

One of the things that you may have thought is surely similar and universal: the opinion of the person we love with all our being conditions us and matters so much that it often leads us to be what we are not, to put aside ourselves. being and essence, and abandon it in many cases forever.

It may happen that we also stop being what we are with the pretense of finding mutual consensus and support for something that for such an important person is not to their liking. Something dangerous that conditions us to stay at that point and always respond with a yes full of doubts and resignation. In short, what we are not. But the important thing is to be safe and trust us; in this way, we can accept the advice of others and not condition ourselves.

Friendship, a fundamental support

An essential plot when it comes to fully developing ourselves as what we are and shining with our own light is friendship.  Those people we choose, who do not come to us by chance and who, when they are authentic and true, care about giving us the best. The best advice usually comes from them since they know us too well, both our vulnerabilities and our personal strengths.

For all this, the beliefs that we may have about ourselves can affect us so much . The good thing about your best friends? They always have something extraordinary to convey to you or to make you improve. Even getting to have the feeling that they know us better than we do.

In short, as I shared with you at the beginning, we live our day to day trying to make the people we love happy, trying at all times not to disappoint them and in the end, having the consequence of being who we are.

Take charge of your life!

But I invite you to take a moment of reflection and answer the following powerful questions: Have you ever wondered if you feel free? Are you happy with your life and with how you really are? Are you proud of yourself? Do you know what your dream is? And the most important of all, do you do what you feel or what you should? If you answer these with a negative, it will probably be time to turn your life around and take control of your own desires, be the captain of your destiny and fly free. Without masks, or excessive conditioning of your environment. 

But I can’t say goodbye to you today, without clarifying on the other hand that the opinion of the people around us is clear that it is very important, necessary and supports us when it comes to improving ourselves . The people who love us, you know they are the best counselors and teachers we can have. They know you better than anyone and even better than you, sometimes ; since your fears do not condition them, and they can be free.

I invite you to stop for a moment, save a moment for yourself and your fantastic heart and sincerely think about who you are and who you want to become, to become. Do you feel good about it? Are all your emotions and vital sensations in order, where they should be to feel good?

You already know that you yourself have the power and resources to make as many positive turns in your life as you need. Life creates us to feel good about ourselves, love ourselves, understand each other and give the best of ourselves to the world and those around us. And for that, we need to be honest. In short, ourselves.

Dare to integrate into your day to day the belief that “the greatest power that exists in the world is to believe in yourself” and use it with yourself and your soul, with all your heart. Dare to be, as they very well say, the captain of your soul, of your own destiny.